If it meant you got to quit your job and stay home?
Would you be happy to sacrifice control over the finances in order to stay home and raise the children (or not) and look after the household duties? Would you be happy to have to rely on your partner for an income?
Would you trust your spouse/partner to provide you with an appropriate allowance, knowing they could take it away at any time if they so choose to (not that they would – but the control is theirs)?
Would you be prepared to make this sacrifice in order to stay home?