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I’ve been a widow for just over a year now. My husband died in Afghanistan. We didn’t have any children. My ex mil was hateful to me the whole time I was married to her son. I did my very best to be civil, but nothing ever worked. In the end I just avoided her and her nasty daughter. I just want to be left alone.

I’ve changed my name, moved back home with my mom, and I’m content with my life now. My ex-mil just won’t get the hint that I want NOTHING to do with her. Most of the harassment is from her not receiving all of my husbands life insurance money. She felt she deserved half of it. I would have given her half if she had been civil to me. But I chose to keep my 80%, and let her cry about it. For 6 years she treated me with the malice, hateful, rude, nasty behavior. I didn’t do anything to provoke her. She always said that I took her baby boy away from her. Her baby boy was a grown man, and he didn’t need mommy’s permission to marry me.

I’ve filed a permanent restraining order from preventing her from contacting me at all. I heard from my one my husbands family members that she’s “hurt” about it. Sorry I refuse to let anyone verbally abuse me. I’m just asking. Why won’t my ex-mil leave me alone?

2 Thoughts on Why won’t my ex in-laws leave me alone?
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    August 9, 2011 at 2:46 am

    Because she wants the money. Just stick with no contact and do not respond at all. If she violates the order file a report on that.

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    August 9, 2011 at 3:04 am

    You done the right thing and now stop worrying.She can’t touch you by law and now you have to work on the emotional part yourself.
    Truly refuse to think about all this anymore.Try and live a happy life.All the very best.

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