12 Thoughts on How serious would you view financial adultery?
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    druhill119
    October 30, 2011 at 3:37 am

    Hell yes it would because they should tell you before it gets that far

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    johnbntexas
    October 30, 2011 at 4:20 am

    what me worry
    come on how bored can you be will the next one be – if you break your arm will it hurt ?

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    Jennifer F
    October 30, 2011 at 5:20 am

    I would leave him. If he doesn’t have enough respect for me or my children to not break us, then he isn’t worth our time or effort.

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    cashis
    October 30, 2011 at 5:47 am

    Hell yeah it would bother me. In some cases that’s grounds for divorce.

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    cdvpruthe
    October 30, 2011 at 6:14 am

    Are you kidding? That would cause a serious breach a trust, without which a marriage cannot survive for long. Grounds for divorce in some states/countries.

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    Marshall Lee
    October 30, 2011 at 7:11 am

    Yup one of many reasons why I divorced my wife.

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    Yo Yo Mama
    October 30, 2011 at 8:10 am

    Financial irresponsibilty is not the same thing as sexual infidelity, though it is still a betrayal.

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    xarmywife
    October 30, 2011 at 9:06 am

    I don’t think it’s grounds for divorce, if that’s what your asking UNLESS he or she is spending money on gambling, prostitutes, strippers and such as that. If not, go to Christian counseling and help him or her get over her spending habits! God bless!!!

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    davidscottwoodruff
    October 30, 2011 at 9:30 am

    Take thy spouse outside the city walls and stone them with small coinage.

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    deemark
    October 30, 2011 at 9:50 am

    Yes it would ,I would talk to him to see how this came to be,try to work it out somehow.

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    Ordog
    October 30, 2011 at 10:38 am

    Depends on what happened – sudden illness might be a good excuse not to get mad, however I doubt it is the problem here- no reason to keep serious matters from your mate, esp if they involve selling the house to get out of debt that was hidden or otherwise lied about. Deception of any sort is a LIE and this is the ultimate deception if not outright betrayal of the mate.

    Yes it would bother me. The usual reasons – gambling, drugs, etc., for this type of problem indicate that the mate would drag you down like a rock around a drowning person’s neck. If the money was spent on an adulterous affair, that is bad also!

    You’d never have anything – peace, security, trust (in your mate), as long as you were with this person, not even a home. You would have to wake up day to day not knowing what disaster awaited you. Even your health would suffer – the stress of the situation, no money for medical insurance or medical care because of mate’s financial fiascoes – would make the situation a hell on earth.

    I’d rather live alone. If children are involved, the insecure environment would not be something good for them, not to mention the arguing etc that goes with it.

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    kardea
    October 30, 2011 at 11:37 am

    I think it’s very serious…..but if your an guy and your woman is doing this to you…leaving her wouldn’t help this situation…..alimony…much worse…if your a guy you can’t win in this situation

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