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Help, my loser fiance has not had a job all month. I go home to find him with his friends (smoking weed, making music, and playing video games). He never cleans up, never cooks, he doesn’t do much. I work 55+ hrs/wk to go home to this crap! Anyway- rent is due on 2/4 and he has no money! Also, bills are behind and he has a $ 500 car note that is late (I cosigned). His “solution” is to call a cash advance place (the ones you see on TV, they say they don’t check your credit) to pay for rent and his car… which is about $ 1,000 or a little more. Will a cash loan place loan someone with no JOB and BAD credit this type of $ $ ? I hope not, I hope we get evicited so I can move back home w/ my parents. He “says” he loves me and he is going to change, but his actions do not reflect. How should I act when I go home and find him there w/ his freinds? He has made no effort to even look for a job. I’m so stressed out here and so unhappy! Anyone have any advice for me? We’ve been 2gether 5 yrs.

7 Thoughts on Help! No money for rent!!?? No money to live!! Fiance not working or caring…??
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    November 16, 2011 at 7:33 am

    why not just move back in with your parents.. if thats what your hoping for..

    sounds like he’s not going to grow up..

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    November 16, 2011 at 7:55 am

    Hey girl
    yeah you guys been together for a long time but he’s a real loser and your better off with out him. I think you should have the car company repo the car before your credit is totally ruined and just move back withy your family. You’ll be happier and less stressed and you’ll have more money to save for your self. good luck…..

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    Ms Thing
    November 16, 2011 at 8:49 am

    I found my answer within the first sentance. If he is not working, staying home and smoking weed and playing video games whilel etting you work 55 hours a week, DUMP HIM. You deserve better.

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    BETH K
    November 16, 2011 at 9:46 am

    simple tell him to get a move on or he has to go!lets see if his friends take him in and will put up with him like that. y should u bust ur @ss to make money for u guys to live when he isnt? i went through this myself. told him i was kicking his butt out had his stuff packed and ready to go he asked for time i gave him 1 week. he had a job in 3 days, one he likes and has been there for 6 years now and is almost at same pay rate i am and we now have a five year old son, a 3 bed room house and 2 cars.

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    November 16, 2011 at 10:10 am

    5 yrs 10 yrs you now see what you was going to marry, bell out ASAP, don’t wait til u get evicted and mess your credit up! You have to put your rules and foot down and don’t lift that mother up!!
    No job, no eating, no living, no playing. He see you gonna make the money so hey y should he? after all you see you r the man and the woman in this relationship why do you need him, well this is old school knowledge, NO MONEY NO HONEY, and if a man can not handle his manly duties and cherish, respect, protect, and make you secure in all areas than as my dad told me when I was 15 THEN F**K A LOVE,
    love does not hurt, stress, lay around, take adavantage or use you
    being you have been with him 5 yrs he should know better, and should be proven himself to you but instead he has falled, so his credit is jacked, girl!!!! you never co-sign unless it’s your husband see you went end bad to a bad choice and relationship, LAZY, BAD CREDIT AND A USER, as said on friday after next where was your antennas? RED ALERT!! I wished i could talk to you one on one, sounds like you are a cali girl and I have no sisters and hate to see a sista in any race get used or played, I am a only & baby girl of my family and had a strong mother who taught all i needed to know, good and bad,
    hopes this helps.
    You also need to get something in writing just in case because the can garnish your wages for his car or a bad report on your credit, take of YOURSELF as you see he cares nothing of your needs, wants, desires, body, rest or respect
    hopes this helps

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    November 16, 2011 at 10:21 am

    Now you know what type of man he is, the question is what are you going to do about it. Suggestion have bank repo the car now and set up a payment plan with them and never co-sign a loan again, it hardly ever pays off. Move out now, notify land lord now to find a new renter and ask if you can break lease if a new renter is found he will advise you on this because he does not want to lose money either, you will have to pay the loss on days not rented. Sorry sometimes the world is cruel. Tell the loser of a boy friend that you are going to small claims to file suit to recover any loss 5,000.00 or under and if over you will take him too regular court and sue him for all damages. But don’t wait do it now or he will cost you more of your hard earned money.

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